The reflection what we see from mirror does not truly represents us. Mistakes are made when we start to judge from what we simply see in front of us. It is like in a desert we may see water from far but it is just a mirage .In addition, self-confidence is very important in life but too much of self-cherishing will blind us from seeing what are facts and faults. Therefore, if we can find something in middle then we are close to success and rest sorely depends on our hard work.
~ 蘇曼嘉旺仁波切 Zurmang Gharwang Rinpoche