In our lives, one may see or hear many things about others and it is important for us to respect how others look and think or simply move away from commenting. Because we cannot really change how others appear and think. It is always unfair to blame someone for our misperceptions and acts, because in this situation I am the problem not the solution. In addition, if I am influence by emotions then even good things one may see as an evil. In my opinion, as a person we should always try to understand all sides then only we will see the whole picture of others.
~ 蘇曼嘉旺仁波切 Zurmang Gharwang Rinpoche