One of the biggest mistakes that we tend to make is that we always judge others by how we percept things which is not necessarily the fact. Logically speaking, it is really hard to explain and to prove by anyone that what we think is in fact what others contemplate, and to have such an attitude is our down fall. Moreover, we use to see others and think that they are good or bad is according what we think and such believe in frozen in our mind. As long as, we have this fix believe then we are not going to see the true pictures of others. To sum-up, it is truly hard to judge what others have in their mind and the wise way is just respect move on.
〜 蘇曼迦旺仁波切 Zurmang Gharwang Rinpoche. Boston.