Today many of us have problems of recognizing hidden faults; the simple reason is that we somehow refuse to accept such existence. By avoiding to bring our emotions into open, is the biggest mistake that we tend to make constantly. Until, we address such critical issue, we are not going to see any solution in near future. Personally I feel that spiritual friends who are good at digging our well hidden mistakes will be one of the best solutions to remove totally. Therefore, in my opinion, we should have more such friends and we will enjoy the fruit of such act.
~ 蘇曼嘉旺仁波切 Zurmang Gharwang Rinpoche