When we think of loving others, we are quite reluctant and bit concerned about people taking advantages of us one way or other. However, such worries prevent us from moving forward and overcoming this misperception which was been building for a long time. Moreover, times after time, all those judgments are proven wrong and untrue. For instance, if we let an anger or jealousy take the control of our hearts and mind then try to find how we feel and one can surely say that the feeling is not pleasant and joyful. On other hand, whoever allows love and compassion to take root inside their hearts will find peace and true happiness shines which out of such individuals in society.
〜 蘇曼迦旺仁波切 Zurmang Gharwang Rinpoche. Sikkim.